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How to Build Trust After Being Cheated On
Can trust be built after you’ve been cheated on? That’s probably the first question we ask ourselves when we find out that we’ve been cheated on. First, because we can’t shut love on and off like a light switch. Feelings are still there. Despite the pain of betrayal, whether we want it to be present or not, there’s always a glimmer of hope. Second, because we know that without trust there isn’t a chance in hell for a healthy relationship. Toxicity, yes. They’ll be plenty of that. But a healthy, loving and thriving relationship? Sorry, not happening. FOR SOME, BUILDING TRUST AFTER CHEATING IS A MOOT POINT Some people believe…
How To Spot Online Romance Scammers and Avoid Being Scammed
Online romance scammers are everywhere, and I’m about to tell you exactly where and how to spot the signs so that you can avoid being scammed. In all fairness, I did warn them. When they hit me up on dating…
How To Deal With Today’s Dating Trends
How do people deal with today’s crazy dating trends in the era of online dating? I recently conducted research for blog posts on ghosting and zombieing, and found a whole bunch of dating trends that left me feeling stunned. Trends…
When The Ghost Becomes a Zombie: Dating Advice
Your personal “Walking Dead” movie has started and you need some serious dating advice: What to do when the ghost becomes a zombie. You were ghosted by someone you thought was the one and now he’s back as a zombie.…
What To Do When You’re Ghosted
Alas, you meet the man of your dreams, or so you thought until he ghosted you. He just up and disappeared after a few months of dating, and of telling you that you were the best thing that ever happened…
Energy Vampires: How to Identify and Deal With Them
Halloween’s around the corner, which makes this the perfect time of the year to blog about how to identify, deal with, and protect yourself from energy vampires. We like to believe that vampires don’t exist, and they don’t in theory.…
How to Increase Healthy Self-Esteem Through Journaling
If you have low self-esteem, you know that it’s not easy putting feelings and thoughts into words. As a matter of fact, it’s pretty hard especially when you can’t pinpoint why you’re feeling and thinking as you do. The good…
Rejection and It’s Effect on Self-Esteem: Is It Something We Should Take Personally?
Fear of rejection, especially in matters of the heart, is a normal reaction. Rejection can harm self-esteem, but is it something we should take so personally? When the fear of rejection and low-self-esteem are deeply rooted, we have twenty…
Surviving Hurricane Laura: Inside the Eerie Silence of the Eye of the Storm
Eerie silence. That’s what being inside the eye of Hurricane Laura, a high-end Cat 4 storm is like. Surviving Hurricane Laura is a blessing, but it’s also a life-changing experience we won’t soon forget. We were inside the eye of…
What Is Emotional Cheating? Can Relationships Survive It?
What is emotional cheating? Some people do it every day. Yet most will tell you that what they’re doing isn’t emotional cheating. It’s just a friendship with a person of the opposite sex that they enjoy talking to and spending time…
The Truth Behind Why Narcissistic Men Can’t Let Go of Their Exes
In my blog post, Help! The Man I Love is a Narcissist, a reader left a comment asking why her narcissist boyfriend can’t stop loving his ex-wife and love her. I thought about the countless other women asking about the…
Why Are We So Negative: It’s an Ancestral Gene Thing
Have you ever asked yourself why we’re so negative? Would you believe me if I said that it’s an ancestral gene thing? Trust me, you want to stay with me until the end of this post. If you tend to…
Help! The Man That I Love is a Narcissist: Surviving a Toxic Relationship
I never imagined that I’d one day say, “Help! The Man I Love is a Narcissist.” But I did. I loved a narcissist, and it took me a good while to realize that. As a result, my life was a…
When Loving You Means Learning to Love You
When Loving You Means Learning to Love You wasn’t my blog topic for this week. I was going to write about narcissistic men and their crazy foolishness, but then a good friend of mine called and we started talking about…