When Loving You Means Learning to Love You wasn’t my blog topic for this week. I was going to write about narcissistic men and their crazy foolishness, but then a good friend of mine called and we started talking about haircuts. She told me that she hasn’t had a sassy, sexy haircut in over two decades because of a negative comment someone close to her made about her last haircut. That negative words could impact a woman’s decision to do something to improve herself that brought her joy annoyed the hell out of me. It made me think about women and self-love, and the fact that most of us don’t…