Can trust be built after you’ve been cheated on?  That’s probably the first question we ask ourselves when we find out that we’ve been cheated on.   First, because we can’t shut love on and off like a light switch. Feelings are still there. Despite the pain of betrayal, whether we want it to be present or not, there’s always a glimmer of hope.   Second, because we know that without trust there isn’t a chance in hell for a healthy relationship.   Toxicity, yes. They’ll be plenty of that.  But a healthy, loving and thriving relationship?    Sorry, not happening.    FOR SOME, BUILDING TRUST AFTER CHEATING IS A MOOT POINT Some people believe…